I am a Mother, Musician & Student as well as a Seeker of Truth and Kindred Spirits. I Live the Ever Evolving Life of a Natural Mother Caged by Adoption. These are my songs…in the hopes that one day I will be completely set free.
There are a few Wise Women in Blog-Land that serve it
up Fresh with a Spork, ToGo.
The Truth in Adoption is Multi-Faceted, and most often times hidden beneath shimmering idealism.
In the center of it all is the Adopted Child, whose voice is rarely heard. It is a sad, harsh reality to accept that we first mothers are responsible for the floundering of our innocently tainted children - But we CAN rise above the ashes and help pull our children up with us if we so desire.
Help yourself Heal by Embracing the Truth. Write as much as you can and reach out beyond yourself to help the other women in Adoption see how BADLY ADOPTION NEEDS REFORM.
If you have not reunited with your First Family or First Children, PLEASE, Do NOT encourage pregnant young women to choose adoption!
ONLY until you have experienced the whole of Adoption can you know that ADOPTION IS A LIFELONG BURDEN FOR ADOPTEES AND FIRST MOTHERS ALIKE AND YOU MAY NEVER FULLY HEAL FROM THE LOSS!
*IF YOU ARE LOOKING TO ADOPT*
PLEASE! Consider looking into Foster Children who need stable loving homes DESPERATELY!
These Children/Babies NEED you! An unborn Baby does not!
*IF YOU ARE PREGNANT AND CONSIDERING ADOPTION*
Please reach out to any Healthy, Stable and Loving Relatives, whether distant or close to help keep your baby in your Tribe!
I KNOW it is scary, But you and your baby will benefit from this in the long run!
We ALL have to grow up One Day, Why not start Today XOX
Back to The Wise Women of Blog-Land....
I will Add to this list as often as I can. The conversation and wisdom will surely be of value if you are seeking the truth and want to heal as best you can.
INDIVIDUALLY, WE ARE BUT ONE DROP ~ TOGETHER, WE ARE AN OCEAN!
*M* I thought I heard a baby cry this morning I got up to check and you were gone Oh my god, what have i done Nightmares wake me In a sweat i reach for you you're never there It can't be true The pain - It lingers like the moon I've waited years to see you soon You're here with me now and you push me away Please don't go I want you to stay I look at your face And it shines like the sun I can't take the pain God what have i done?
K.S.R. written 1997*
The past is the only tangible thing to hold on to:::
the tide broke so evenly along the shore this morning and all the evils of yesterday were swept back in to the vast ocean of memories and for every wave that broke there was something new to smile about-and cry for each of them was the ebb of change lingering...for those who come to seek the brave new world rising up high piercing the soul with light and drying the tears of yesterdays sorrows
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